than all the pictures I take
This is something I say to my kids. Or my kids say to me.
I say: How much do I love you?
They say: More than all the pictures you take.
What do photographers have to say about taking photographs after they become mothers and fathers. This is an opportunity to explore: personal photographic style and / or technique (maybe it's the burden of personal photographic style) once children come along. Or is it just a time to leave the camera home? Is there an expectation from relatives and friends that the photographs of your children will match the complexities (and look) of your artistic work. I know many of you have thought about this. And I know I can be more academic in my description (gaze! authorship! Freud! gender! ) but we can leave that for later. I'd like to start as I start many of my projects these days. . . with a phone number and voice mail. You call in your thoughts. I edit and make it sound like pure gold. The more calls the better. My students just completed a project about music. They got family to call in about songs that make you cry." More on this and the phone number soon.
Or what about when mothers and fathers become photographers ("When I became a mother, I also had to learn how to be a photographer.") That might be an a completely different topic. . . More on this later.
I love you more than all the pictures I take.
2005, Dennis, MA.